I absolutely love earrings but i guess i should be kinda glad that i can’t really wear any a part from the small gold hoop i have on one ear. i had my cartilage pierced twice when i was a teen and it got horribly infected… i ended up taking both out.. then stupidly i got another two piercings on the same ear.. and now there’s two disgusting scar tissues.. i took one out and left the other in.. i’ve had the same small hoop since i was 17 (dw! i clean it well with a cotton bud lol!) i always dread that once i take it out i won’t be able to put it back in because of the oversized scar tissue. but i guess i won’t need to worry about stretched out lobe